12:03 am
Rainiqui
flip and te 7
12:04 am
cybernan
re 8 - hi everyone
12:04 am
TraderKate
Fliperoo and exit stage left, off to forage :)
12:05 am
TraderKate
the re8 bit me!
12:07 am
cybernan
no carrots for that one!
12:07 am
TraderKate
lol. I already have a phantom re 8...must try to forget that one!
12:08 am
TraderKate
Hi Liz, nan, Rain and jess... popping out for a bit.
12:10 am
dizgrannie
in 8 x 2
12:13 am
TraderKate
ty diz <3
12:21 am
cybernan
crashing -- good night everyone
12:21 am
Lizlin
Thanks, Jess and sleep well nan
12:21 am
licketySplitAUS
Clues are up
12:21 am
juniperberet
or 9 if not called
12:22 am
Lizlin
Thanks, Lickety
12:22 am
Lizlin
Thanks, Juniper
12:23 am
cybernan
ty =, ty - nice way to close with an 8 and a 9
12:24 am
TraderKate
TY Lickety and juniper!
12:45 am
rururocks
do 8 x 2 actually
12:48 am
ARB
my d next to the o is blacked out and I have only 1 do 8
12:49 am
ARB
sorry -- scrolling down I see a second! mea culpa
12:55 am
sprite
good morning all
12:57 am
TraderKate
Congratulations diz! Hi Sprite
12:57 am
rururocks
hi sprite
12:57 am
sprite
hiya ru and Kate, how's you?
12:57 am
TraderKate
hi ruru and ARB :)
12:58 am
rururocks
I'm doing fine.. hi tk
12:58 am
sprite
good to hear, ru
1:00 am
rururocks
the t's are easy except one
1:00 am
rururocks
never saw it before
1:01 am
sprite
might be my new word learned for today then
1:01 am
TraderKate
uh oh... if ruru has never seen is we's alls in trouble!
bbs, snackies time
1:04 am
rururocks
finished.. no list.. awesome
1:05 am
rururocks
haven't done that for a week
1:05 am
sprite
wtg ru!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1:07 am
Kamanjah
wtg, ru!
1:07 am
sprite
*hugs Kam*
1:07 am
sprite
how are you and M today?
1:08 am
Kamanjah
ok, but tired. He was dozy most of the day. He is bored, and I think he has a headache - overheard him talking to a friend...but when I ask, he's "fine."
1:09 am
sprite
men... sigh... ;)
I guess being tired is not weird after all he's been through. Maybe a day of dozing and being bored is just what he needed
1:11 am
Kamanjah
Well, he's down for another 5 weeks at least - not supposed to bend over even if he drops something. I have to stay super alert, and I know once he really feels better, it's going to be tough to keep him from doing things. I just want him to be healed up, but I think he understands the importance of following doc's orders.
1:13 am
sprite
I am sure he does understand, and yeah, it is hard to follow such orders once you start feeling much better. But it is too precious to waste, he knows that for sure.
1:13 am
Kamanjah
Have you heard from Rose? I hope she's doing well.
1:14 am
sprite
not yet, but did not expect to yet either. First day of infusion, she is out for the count, I bet
1:14 am
Kamanjah
Yes, a new lease on life is indeed precious, he's not going to mess up!
1:14 am
Kamanjah
I wasn't sure of the timing since she's on the other side of the world from me.
1:15 am
sprite
what's 5 weeks of boredom and restraint compared with a whole new lease on life, right?
1:15 am
sprite
it is the evening of her first day of infusions now
1:15 am
Kamanjah
Exactly!
1:17 am
Kamanjah
OK. If she has 3 days, she'll be out for a bit, and then we'll be back for round 2 of surgery - 5AM Monday, ugh. I'll be glad when that is over and we are home safely. I'm concerned about driving when overly tired.
1:17 am
sprite
could you go halfway the day before and sleep in a B&B?
1:19 am
sprite
or is there someone who could drive you?
1:20 am
Kamanjah
We're going up Sunday, it's the drive home I'm worrying about. Getting up at 4 last Monday did me in, and this is a shorter surgery and outpatient. So, as soon as they take him to the OR, I have to go load our stuff into the car and check out, then wait for him to get released. There's a nice hotel across the street, which makes it convenient.
1:21 am
Kamanjah
I just have to knock myself out early Sun night!
1:21 am
sprite
wouldn't call that convenient, lollll, more like a desperately needed help in a dire situation
1:22 am
sprite
*sends Kam a rubber hammer*
1:25 am
Kamanjah
The hotel is listed on all of the online services, but shows no rooms available - we called in a panic about 4 weeks ago - I guess they show sold out unless you call and say you're a patient. It is very nice, and the cost is more than reasonable. We got our reservation for Sunday when we checked in last Sunday. No problem.
1:25 am
sprite
and if you should stay another night?
1:25 am
Kamanjah
It *was* nice being able to park and just walk across the street to see him without driving and messing with finding more parking. Parked Sunday night and didn't move the car until I picked him up Tues afternoon.
1:26 am
sprite
that is awesome
1:26 am
Kamanjah
We could, but the animals are home, and he will want the comforts of home after another surgery. I'm not even bringing that up, even though I thought about it. His comfort is #1 right now.
1:27 am
sprite
I understand completely. But safety is very important too.
1:28 am
Kamanjah
I know! And if I feel 'off' at any time, I can always pull off the road.
1:29 am
sprite
true. Take care of the both of you, darling, and know rose and I are both praying and rooting for you two. Fireflies here, fun grid.
1:30 am
sprite
*hugs Kam on her way out*
1:30 am
Kamanjah
Thank you! I've been thinking of Rose today. Looking forward to hearing good news from her when we get back home! You take care too. *Higs!*
1:30 am
Kamanjah
Oops, HUGS
2:13 am
rubyfoo
houseguests = tired
2:17 am
TraderKate
dear me! Hi ruby :)
2:17 am
rubyfoo
Hello Kate
2:17 am
rubyfoo
Guests are still leepijng
2:18 am
rubyfoo
sleeping*
2:18 am
TraderKate
goody! a bit of peace and quiet for you... hlding up okay?
2:20 am
TraderKate
(ruby feeds obernight guests amphetamines intheir breakfast cereal... hence the leaping...) keeps the pup entertasined ;)
3:21 am
ivesy3
first en 6 plz
3:22 am
grannyrose
en6. shouted to cast of actors to repeat performance
4:31 am
juniperberet
Looks like we all dropped a point in the rankings from yesterday's grid ... maybe it didn't process everyone who finished it?
4:34 am
MollyL
The rankings list must not have tabulated yesterday. It looks like no one finished yesterday's grid. But many people did. Maybe later in the day it will update.
6:38 am
MLFAN17
2ndcolumn lone E?
6:38 am
MollyL
Old time word for forever
6:38 am
lil*monkey
I think it's eg4
6:39 am
lil*monkey
or maybe ey4
6:39 am
MLFAN17
hi lil monkey!
6:39 am
ChampFit
it's the et6/18
6:40 am
MLFAN17
hi champ ty
6:41 am
ChampFit
good morning! just got here and found that et
6:42 am
MLFAN17
2nd column N?
6:44 am
MLFAN17
Is the 4th column lone N also a 4?
6:44 am
ChampFit
Haven't gotten there yet...
6:45 am
MLFAN17
its my other blank tile
6:45 am
ChampFit
Yes. It's an ni4/5
6:47 am
MLFAN17
ty again champ
6:47 am
MLFAN17
got the 8!
6:47 am
ChampFit
Go Mlf, go!
6:48 am
MLFAN17
just need the 9 :)
6:48 am
ChampFit
I just found one too!
6:49 am
lil*monkey
or9/ 54
6:50 am
lil*monkey
it builds off the or6
6:50 am
MLFAN17
or 6/18 you mean monkey?
6:51 am
MLFAN17
I just guessed and got it
6:52 am
ChampFit
Me too...thanks!
7:14 am
ChampFit
Gtg...taking my mom to Dallas for her friend's 90th bday party. Good luck, all!
8:01 am
car.eeyore
Good morning
8:05 am
bonkler
trying to keep my mind off the igraine I woke up to, not seeing the 9, is it off the or6/18 that means Asia?
8:08 am
bonkler
ty will monkey
8:08 am
MLFAN17
good morning car
8:09 am
MLFAN17
hi bonk hi mubner
8:09 am
Mubner
add two vowels and consonant
8:09 am
bonkler
*face palm* thank you. should have seen that one.
8:10 am
MLFAN17
bonk I guessed on that word you asked about and got it not thinking it would work
8:10 am
doseffing
... russian fur like sable
8:11 am
MLFAN17
hi dose is that for me?
8:11 am
doseffing
... maybe it's not russian (just checked) but I was think of it as russian ... ... yeah
8:11 am
bonkler
er + hole you dig to look for minerals + past tense
8:12 am
Uneaixoise
or pt of royal fur :-)
8:13 am
MLFAN17
ty une and bonk and dose
8:13 am
bonkler
can't focus on letters, time for codeine and a lie down
8:46 am
NatashaW
woot got the 9 w/o even looking at Lickety! A 1st, I confess...
8:56 am
NatashaW
huh, never knew that fur could be a verb. Learn something new every day :-)
8:57 am
NatashaW
whoops my bad
8:57 am
NatashaW
not a word anyhow :-)
8:57 am
phaeton
re7/28 the first one?
9:19 am
dan2bit
woo hoo phaeton
10:14 am
dan2bit
anybody can clue the ge6?
10:20 am
dan2bit
or the first en6?
10:22 am
rururocks
ge what's due to live in an apartment
10:22 am
rururocks
first en brings a performer back to the stage
10:22 am
dan2bit
ty ruru!
10:22 am
dan2bit
i definitely thought I tried hat
10:28 am
rururocks
apparently you hadn't :D
10:46 am
NatashaW
can someone clue ri6,21? blind as a bat here
10:46 am
NatashaW
I have the words that surround it, but it eludes me
10:47 am
NatashaW
of course, having asked for a clue, I now got it
10:47 am
NatashaW
why does that happen? Some kind of psychological phenomenon... break down and ask for help, and suddenly you see it...
10:48 am
aebmusica
Anyone know anything about the ranking list.....I finished all the words in yesterday's grid and also for a long long time back and now a point has been taken off of my score??????
10:49 am
NatashaW
Sorry, way too far down the rankings to even bother looking at them... :-)
10:55 am
gemini_J13
I very seldom look at rankings so wouldn't know what they are from day to day
10:55 am
aebmusica
thanks Natasha....anyone else know about this?
10:55 am
gemini_J13
Molly posted something earlier about them
10:55 am
gemini_J13
maybe they hadn't been updated?
10:56 am
gemini_J13
but I didn't look because I wouldn't know if they had or hadn't
10:57 am
aebmusica
Ah ....well...I enjoy playing Babble anyway....just curious?
11:01 am
rururocks
we're all being punished and have lost a point :D
11:04 am
rururocks
jingle bells kje :D
11:10 am
MollyL
All the people who usually finish all the grids are listed in the third column as 1030. Now they are all 1029. I have to figure that the rankings did not update correctly. There has been a lot of internet trouble lately. Ask the IRS.
11:37 am
jaxx7
Don't panic, not a word.
11:52 am
Christa
Good Morning
11:57 am
therealblah
morning christa
11:58 am
rururocks
*hands out Xanax to everyone for the reeye
12:00 pm
Mary
hi all, te7/32 pls?
12:01 pm
MollyL
There should be a permanent (big) stash of Xanax in the PB. The chat would be a mellower place.
: D
12:01 pm
rururocks
like a bad illness with a vowel ending.. weird word
12:02 pm
Mary
ty molly and ruru
12:05 pm
MollyL
te7 is the Latin word that our (more familiar) bad illness word is based on.
12:23 pm
rururocks
I'm getting sick of latin words here :D
12:26 pm
MollyL
Well, those fluent in Latin would say lenta stercore
12:35 pm
rururocks
what's that mean?
12:35 pm
MollyL
Google search is your friend
: P
12:39 pm
rururocks
that didn't help either
12:39 pm
rururocks
lenta is relaxed.. but not sure of stercore
1:09 pm
MollyL
Google search = lenta stercore in Latin
1:12 pm
MollyL
https://tinyurl.com/y9t7buve
1:13 pm
MollyL
*Puts the spoon-feeding spoon away
1:22 pm
o2baflyndog
LMGTFY =)
1:27 pm
MollyL
For those who don't participate in abbreviations, that is Let Me Google That For You
1:29 pm
cybernan
good morning/afternoon everyone
1:30 pm
Aloyisius
hi nan, hi all
1:47 pm
Aloyisius
fun grid, time to scoot. Enjoy your Saturday! poof
1:57 pm
cybernan
lunch time - bbl
1:57 pm
hurshy
i got the 9 i got the 9 i got the 9
2:28 pm
MollyL
Did anyone notice that Hurshy got the 9? If not, she got the 9
2:34 pm
rururocks
Someone need a 9?
2:35 pm
hurshy
no but i need some sixes
2:36 pm
hurshy
en6/21, ge6, mo6
2:38 pm
MollyL
en6...the audience yells for a repeat
2:39 pm
hurshy
doh, thanks
2:39 pm
Uneaixoise
Ge + lease
2:39 pm
MollyL
mo6...sounds like actress Stapleton
2:40 pm
hurshy
thank you, FW!
2:40 pm
Uneaixoise
Congrats!!
2:41 pm
MollyL
Oops, there is Une cluing. I will bow out.
2:41 pm
hurshy
you guys made a great tag-team
2:58 pm
cybernan
hi again, everyone
3:04 pm
cybernan
*!*~*!* - anyone want clues before I leave?
3:06 pm
cybernan
hagd everyone
4:20 pm
eieios
Hey, hursh, I will take a clue for that nine!
4:22 pm
TraderKate
map and compass running around the countryside?
4:26 pm
eieios
Yeah, I don't get it. Lol
4:27 pm
Shirlockc
the 9 is a or and an extension of the or6
4:27 pm
TraderKate
or 6/18..... broad term for the far east...do you have that? the 9 builds from that
4:28 pm
eieios
Got it. Thx!
5:26 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
hi all, nbt
5:29 pm
TraderKate
Hi Gwen :)
5:30 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
halfway done, hi Kate!!
5:30 pm
TraderKate
any hiunts on the lone E, 2nd column... 8 to go and still don't have NBT
5:31 pm
doseffing
lone e ... lasts forever
5:31 pm
TraderKate
Nice! It's a pretty friendly grid for a small one :)
5:31 pm
TraderKate
tytyty dose!
5:32 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
hiya doseffing
5:33 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
i've been playing on my phone lately, which is not as much fun as on my desktop puter, which i'm playing on today
5:33 pm
doseffing
... good day ... only here for a couple more minutes ... gotta go watch the Bruins end Toronto's dreams
5:34 pm
doseffing
... phone is lousey ... just too small ... can't read the letters or type
5:34 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
plus, impossible to use lickety's list effectively on the phone
5:35 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
though I don't usually go there till i'm 2/3 done at least
5:35 pm
doseffing
... more and more reasons to not try ... ... but what else to you do on the commuter train late at night
5:35 pm
TraderKate
Why have you been on the phone Gwen, out and about a lot?
5:36 pm
TraderKate
When does the game start dose? I will try to find it on a live stream... poor Leafs :(
5:37 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
yep, my exciting part time job driving for uber eats
5:37 pm
TraderKate
Most days I would not finish without Lickety. (or driving the chog ctazy begging for clues)
5:38 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
i haven't finished on in a while, but i enjoy the challange whether i finish or not
5:39 pm
TraderKate
That's because you have a life Gwen ;)
I have been finishing lately, but the grids have been small.
5:39 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
advantage of playing on phone, no cat to walk on your keyboard LOL
5:40 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
=----------411111111111111111111111111\n11111111111111111111111111111111111111\n11111111111111111111111111111111111111\n11111111111111111111111111111111111111\n111111111111111111111111111111111111
5:40 pm
TraderKate
=(^_^)=
5:40 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
. . . is what my cat just "helped" me with
5:40 pm
doseffing
... oh I wouldn't put it past them if they really wanted attention
5:41 pm
doseffing
.. oh well ... must go ... luck to all
5:41 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
yep!
5:41 pm
TraderKate
chapter 20? ;)
5:41 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
see later dos
5:41 pm
TraderKate
bye dose!
5:42 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
i put it down as chapter 20 all right. haven't posted chapter 19, yet, it's a deusy
5:43 pm
TraderKate
I'm 2 chapters behind...
5:43 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
(if it doesn't "fit" I will trim a few of the extra digits, but I will save the "real" material in my files)
5:43 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
oh no! shall I post chapters 17 and 18?
5:45 pm
TraderKate
I hope you publish it all in one album when kitty is finished.
I wasn't really on FB yesterday Gwen was avoiding a potentially bad converstion. I will go crawl your wall and get myself caught up at some pioint today.
5:46 pm
TraderKate
of course, perhaps you have readers here that aren't on FB, so you should post?
5:46 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
shall i send a pox to the potentially bad conversation person for you? no charge LOL
5:48 pm
TraderKate
Actually Gwen, I am hoping it will be okay. Our last converstion was heaidng toward her asking me to unfriend someone...but it was a request that was entirely appropriate....long story
5:48 pm
TraderKate
In fact you should send her good vibes and healing auras or whatever you've got in your bag of tricks.
5:50 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
okay, sending good vibes and leaving the universe to connect them to the person in question.
5:50 pm
TraderKate
Down to 7 here, but I'm pretty sure they are all IN, EN, RE, and DE wrds :(
5:51 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
go go go !!!
5:51 pm
TraderKate
I don't wanna list!!!!!!!!!!!
5:51 pm
TraderKate
I still need a lousy 4!
5:52 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
can i help?
5:53 pm
TraderKate
if I could beg the middle column E, that would knock out that tile...? please? have 1/2
5:53 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
lemme see
5:54 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
i do have em, but have to figure out which ones they are
5:54 pm
TraderKate
tiricky, not even sure which one I have...sorry.
5:54 pm
rururocks
En 6. To bring a performer back
5:54 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
en6, you do it after the applause
5:55 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
and en6, main dish
5:55 pm
TraderKate
I have "again, maestro" then I have to go in...
5:56 pm
TraderKate
BINGO! ty Gwen...
5:56 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
yea ! ! !
5:56 pm
TraderKate
still 6 to go, I will soldier on for a while...
5:57 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
29 to go here, getting hungry
5:58 pm
TraderKate
call yber for delivery? ;)
5:58 pm
TraderKate
I guess in your case, it's YOUBER?
6:10 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
naw, i have some leftovers, gonna tackle em soon
6:11 pm
TraderKate
:) Easiest meals, I would starve without them
6:11 pm
TraderKate
Somehow got down to 2!
6:12 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
woo hoo!
6:13 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
(whispering for dramatic effect) go go go!
6:14 pm
TraderKate
fireflies
6:15 pm
TraderKate
last word was the short-tailed lemur bablet ;/
I'm kinda disappounter that the last few went so quickly
6:15 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
woot!
6:19 pm
TraderKate
ty too ruru; sorry I didn't see you there!
6:19 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
chapter 18 posted to facebok, enjoy!
6:20 pm
TraderKate
TY Gwen. I will stay and lurk for a bit... tossing out very bad clues rife with typos ;)
6:24 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
stuck on the in7/36
6:25 pm
TraderKate
think of a number line... another word for a whole number, I think...
6:26 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
that was it, TANX
6:26 pm
TraderKate
YW, glad it helped, wasn't a very good clue.
6:27 pm
Book Doctor Gwen
12 to go, gotta eat now, see ya whenevs
6:27 pm
TraderKate
Bye Gwen, enjoy your dins :-)
6:28 pm
TraderKate
Are you still here ruru?
6:44 pm
rururocks
I am in and out
6:47 pm
TraderKate
Was just wondering, in case someone needs clues. I'm taking a page from Gwen's book and going to think about starting dinner. Going to see if I can find the hockey game online.
6:52 pm
TraderKate
http://www.cbc.ca/sports/hockey/nhl/ap\np-hnic-live-leafs-bruins-round-1-1.461\n4963
6:54 pm
TraderKate
https://tinyurl.com/y7c6m3qn
7:09 pm
TraderKate
Random clue for lurkerz:
DO 8/50 = student digs + (The Far East minus conjunction)
7:10 pm
wht
Hi Kate. Do you have a clue for the ge6?
7:17 pm
TraderKate
ugh, bad lag here... also + what you pay the landlord?
7:17 pm
wht
ty Kate. My monkeys could not come up with that.
7:17 pm
TraderKate
first clue idn't go through
GE + landlord's due?
7:18 pm
TraderKate
I stumbled upon it by typo ;)
7:19 pm
wht
That's OK, Kate. I figured it out.
7:23 pm
TraderKate
Congratulations wht! WOOOT!
7:32 pm
wht
Kate, thanks for your help. I think that I will be off. Have a good evening, and a good evening to all the lurkers as well.
7:37 pm
Buttonman
Evening all! Could someone please clue me the en 6/21?
7:40 pm
Buttonman
anyone out there?
7:41 pm
TraderKate
audience call to performer for "more"?
7:41 pm
TraderKate
audience call to performer for "more"?
7:43 pm
Buttonman
Thanks Kate, got it
7:43 pm
TraderKate
EN + center of earth or apple
7:43 pm
TraderKate
EN + center of earth or apple
7:44 pm
TraderKate
In and out wtching game... will check back at stops of play
7:53 pm
gapeach
Good evening all. May I please have a clue for in6-21 the 1st? Thanks
7:55 pm
TraderKate
hi peach :)
7:56 pm
gapeach
Hi there, Kate. Hope you are doing well.
7:57 pm
TraderKate
IN 6/21
IN + not alive; **ad + leg joint k**e
sorry, lousy clue
7:58 pm
TraderKate
mostly okay here peach, how are you?
7:59 pm
TraderKate
coaches corner back in 5 or so
8:01 pm
gapeach
Thanks so much, Kate. I'm doing OK .....just old-age aches etc.
8:02 pm
cosdem
thank kate for the in6
8:04 pm
gapeach
Hey there, cos.
8:05 pm
cosdem
hey peach!
8:07 pm
TraderKate
hi cod, yw :)
8:08 pm
cosdem
still in jail kate
8:08 pm
TraderKate
LOL... I seem to be on parole, ay least for now ;)
(That'll get 'em talking...)
8:09 pm
cosdem
hah fb gods do not apply here
8:09 pm
TraderKate
I will ache in symapthy for you peach. Feeling it a bit myself.
8:10 pm
cosdem
I have no where else to turn to
8:10 pm
cosdem
can i vent about my life i need someone to u know hear what i have to say
8:10 pm
gapeach
Thanks, Kate
8:10 pm
TraderKate
Thank goodness... and if we violate laws here there's the PB, complete with cabana boys, food, and liquor!
8:11 pm
TraderKate
Listening cos.
8:12 pm
cosdem
i may be a ugh idk
8:12 pm
cosdem
Ryan is in hospital again
8:12 pm
TraderKate
Oh no :(
8:13 pm
cosdem
prognosis: not good
8:14 pm
TraderKate
how "not good"? Px definite?
8:15 pm
cosdem
i gotta prepare isa ll i know
8:15 pm
TraderKate
sending huge hugs... do you need to cry, or maybe scream?
8:16 pm
TraderKate
crap double crap...
8:17 pm
cosdem
I love my bosses though they donated their sick leave time to me so i can get paid
8:17 pm
cosdem
thats all i have to say that is good
8:17 pm
TraderKate
What do yeou need cos?
8:18 pm
cosdem
I have no idea
8:19 pm
TraderKate
assuming you are home alone now?
8:20 pm
gapeach
Iam praying for you and him.
8:20 pm
TraderKate
can you change that - do you want to change that?
8:20 pm
gemini_J13
I don't know you but sending a big hug
8:21 pm
TraderKate
I am thnking that maybe you shouldn't be alone right now, even if you don't want people around you... you need some human physical connection.
8:22 pm
cosdem
i have someone coming over in like 4 hours but other than that no
8:24 pm
TraderKate
You just got prognosis today when he went to hospital? Processing takes time and shouldn't be attemted all ay once.
8:24 pm
gapeach
I agree with Kate, Cos. I lost my granddaughter last august (cancer). It is rough. There are prayers and good thoughts coming your way.
8:25 pm
cosdem
3 days ago and yes thank you gapeach i appreciate it his mom asked me not to say anytikng on fb so i had to come here
8:27 pm
gapeach
The energy that these Babblers have is wonderful. You can talk to us anytime.
8:28 pm
TraderKate
I think a good dinnerout is in order. Can you scare someone ip on short notice?
8:29 pm
cosdem
my cousin and brother and uncle are texting me now.. my cousin told them.. theyre all in chicago tho
8:31 pm
TraderKate
Prescription: order a pizza and binge watch The Golden Girls until your company comes... after a good brisk walk - if you can't get out for a while with someone.
8:36 pm
cosdem
my friend is on her way over until my other friend gers here
8:37 pm
TraderKate
Good news!
8:49 pm
TraderKate
We are here for you cos. Always. <3
8:54 pm
helenkeller
{{{cos}}}
8:56 pm
cosdem
seriously FML
8:57 pm
cosdem
not mining for sympathy dont get me wrong
8:58 pm
TraderKate
Hear ya cos....
8:59 pm
cosdem
i know life goes on but it irritates me seeing all these happy fb posts
8:59 pm
TraderKate
It seems to me that empathy and sympathy are what is required.
9:00 pm
cosdem
I have 5 animals and a house
9:00 pm
cosdem
idk what ill do with that all alone
9:00 pm
cosdem
without him
9:01 pm
TraderKate
Stay in the here and now cos. Never mind about tomorrow.
9:01 pm
cosdem
he is strapped down to a bed because he is delusional
9:02 pm
TraderKate
:( how awful for both of you. That must be agonising for you to see
9:03 pm
cosdem
i had an anxiety attack i had to leabe
9:04 pm
TraderKate
{{{(((cos)))}}}
9:04 pm
TraderKate
You know that's OKAY, right? Not something for you to beat yourself up over....
9:07 pm
cosdem
he would mak me leave .. so i know its ok but i still feel like crap
9:12 pm
TraderKate
Do you know exactly why you feel like crap? Not a flippant question...is it your saddness, anger, guilt etc.
9:15 pm
cosdem
everything.. he did this to me. but its not ihis fault.. i tried so hard to help
9:15 pm
Bugsaw
cos. I am SO sorry that you are experiencing all this pain right now. We are there for you in spirit and love
9:17 pm
TraderKate
Cos never have doubt that you DID help.
9:19 pm
cosdem
how.. hes in the hospital prob dying
9:21 pm
TraderKate
How about you answer that question yourself. It seems to me that he had a few demons to battle, and you were there.
9:23 pm
cosdem
almost 15 years
9:28 pm
TraderKate
Do you wish those 15 years never happened?
9:32 pm
TraderKate
Hi Bugs :)
9:34 pm
TraderKate
I think cos' friend has arrived
9:37 pm
ls1
Cos, this is where the path has led both of you, no point in looking backward. You have to continue to move forward one step at a time. There is no other choice. I have no idea what the back story is, but you need to keep moving forward. This is not the time to dwell on good or bad, mistakes or heroics. It's time to be determined to move forward with love and support, both for him AND yourself.
10:01 pm
mab
oh no. (((((cos))))))
10:07 pm
Bugsaw
Hi Kate. Very distracted here and now holding poor cosdem in my heart. I am sure he needs some real hugs now and hope he gets lots. It is never easy to see someone you love preparing to change worlds no matter how prepared you think you are. I am not sure Cos was really prepared at all. Poor man
10:19 pm
stidmama
Hey all ((Bugs)) Cos hasn't posted on fb in a while, I think he is with someone finally.
10:19 pm
gapeach
FW I feel so sad for cos. I agree with you, Bugs. I don't believe we can really prepare....just tale one day at a time. I'm sure they are both getting lots of prayers and good vibes from Babblers. Blessings.
10:20 pm
TraderKate
Bugs, pretty sure his friend has arrived and another will be there in a couple hours. Hoping it helps,
10:20 pm
TraderKate
Why are you distracted Bugs?
10:21 pm
TraderKate
Hi stiddie :)
10:21 pm
stidmama
(((flo))) hope you are well. miss you
11:01 pm
rururocks
not meaning to pry .. but what is happening to Cos' partner? what is wrong with him?
11:06 pm
rururocks
anyone?
11:19 pm
harpjane
I've been wondering that also
11:58 pm
Bugsaw
just popped back on. Cosdems partner od 14 or 15 years is in hospital close to death. not sure of cause